: Episode 572 - Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney from the Ask Women podcast join Vinnie to discuss weight, relationships, and body image. PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS Pure Vitamin Club Villa Cappelli Squatty Potty KRISTEN AND MARNI They have a show on Playboy Radio called "Ask Women" Vinnie was on their show recently Their show is largely about men becoming good with the ladies Help men attract women with HONEST advice A lot of Vinnie's callers also ask for help with the ladies Their podcast fills a niche, making it successful Check out Marni's website here Check out Kristen's website here WEIGHT, RELATIONSHIPS, AND BODY IMAGE A lot of men who are overweight lose weight and think they will be a ladies magnet However, physical is not NEARLY as important to women as men Men need to work on their personalities and who they are as a person instead of obsessing over body image Many people lose the weight, then ask "now what" They want to go back to their old diet but that will put the weight right back on In high school, Kristen struggled with her 'image' as she had a crossed eye and thick glasses She was bullied and had a negative body imagine from the start She changed schools at 17 Vinnie relates to this because he was really picked on (he was deaf/speech challenged when he was little and it carried all the way through high school) Marni felt awkward and shy, although she was more outgoing than she gave herself credit for, but she did have to deal with lots of bullying The bullying that the two endured still affects them to an extent although now the two have great self worth Many beautiful women are insecure because they were bullied and brought down when they were younger Both tried to be healthy by eating less and then binge-eating, which actually hurt their weight Going to the gym made them 'bulk up' which caused them to obsess because they wanted to be lean